Unfortunately (when a sentence starts with
that, you know it ain't gonna be good) social class matters way too much in the
U.S. today. As a matter of fact, it is one of the things
that matter the most in America today. As we all know, unfortunately (again) our
culture is controlled by our youngsters.
Yes, our easily influence, shallow youngsters, who dress whatever the
Kardashians tell them to wear, and watch whatever their school cheerleaders
tell them to watch. I am not saying all
young people are like that! By no
means! However, the American culture is
described by others as the behavior of those youngsters who want it all, and
yet know nothing about anything. One of
the things that they learn in their religious relationship with the media is to
value social class. I don’t believe they
think of it that way, but when the price of your clothing or the name imprinted
on your bag (probably by some underpaid Chinese child) is more important to
others than your values, beliefs and intellectual capacity… that says that social class is in fact
considered important.
I
have experienced the importance of social class. The most evident examples of such importance
were witnessed by me in the glorified place (which has become more of a social
event than a center for education) we call High School. In high school, social class is pretty much
everything. The girls who wear the most
expensive clothing, or have the most expensive cars, or go to the most
expensive restaurants (none of which are actually paid with their own hard
work, but rather that of her parents) are considered the most popular. The same applies to boys. There is this misconception that money equals
worthiness. It is shameful. And by the way, it is the parents’
fault. Dear American parents, lets start
educating your children instead of buying their fake respect with video games
and expensive crap they don’t need. Video
games will make them stop slamming doors right now, but a good education and
values will save them from having doors slammed at them later.
When
we think of the importance of social status, we most likely imagine the scenarios
I just presented. But those aren't the
only ones. Social status is important in
the U.S. for deeper
reasons. In American, if you don’t have
money, you pretty much don’t have anything.
There are many good public schools, but if you can’t afford supplies,
books, tutors, and the many other expenses that come with education, you’re
pretty much in trouble. You need money to have education, to go to the doctor, to live. Does social class matter in the U.S.? Yes. Unfortunately yes.
Hmmm, wow. That was...a bit intense.
ReplyDeleteI can see your point with almost all of the posting, but I am confused why you believe it's all the parents' fault. It's a very damning accusation (and I am not familiar with any study that supports your hypothesis).
A parent can educate a child all they want but there are other social factors that make just as much impact, and alot of times more impact than what the parent can field. Friends, teachers, social media, consumer generation by corporations, school, religion, etc. All of those present the same influences. The only way to prevent a child from obtaining those influences is to close them off from society permanently with no social contact. The level one would have to "educate" their child would demonstrate a similar affect as to what happened to Genie. And I am curious as to why you believe that all parents do such things that you described. That is a very interesting generalization that blatantly profiles a social group (American parents).
I didn't say all parents are at fault for every single issue there is. In this post, I am talking EXCLUSIVELY about superficiality. If a parent doesnt educate their child and teaches him/she that you shouldn't put a price on people, than it is the parents' fault. Teachers and friends don't teach values, parents do. There are problems that are beyond the parents' control, as we saw in the documentary, but superficiality isn't one of those. And that is what I was talking about. Humility and strong values are things we learn at home. But again, the issue discussed in my post is superficiality.
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ReplyDeleteI didn't say all parents are at fault. But if you don't educate your child and teach him/she that you shouldn't put a price on people, than it is the parents' fault. Teachers and friends don't teach values, parents do. There are problems that are beyond the parents' control, as we saw in the documentary, but superficiality isn't one of those. And that is what I was talking about. Humility and strong values are things we learn at home. That is what I meant.
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